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My penis is too smallIt's actually extremely unlikely that your penis is too small for sex and it's hard to see how it could be too small for masturbation, so presumably what you mean is that you are unsatisfied with the size of your penis. An average penis - as has been said many times on the internet - is about 5 and a half inches long and 5 inches in girth. This may not console you if your penis is smaller than this, but it gives you a benchmark of normality: above 5.5 inches, your penis is bigger than average, below it, your penis is smaller than average. Does penis size matter anyway? Well, not to women, that's for sure. There may be a few size queens out there who are fixated on penis size, but the majority of women like a caring, kind man who has a reasonable sense of his own masculinity and is a good companion who can empathize with them while still retaining his masculinity. As far as I know, no normal woman judges a man's maleness on the size of his penis - she's far too wise for that, and she knows sexual pleasure is something that both men and women can achieve in many more ways than just by vaginal penetration and thrusting (think of oral sex for example - which just happens to be most women's favorite sexual activity!) So it's clear that the obsession with penis size - right down to the beliefs that having a big penis makes you more masculine, and that women want a man with a big penis (no matter what they say) - are men's issues, not women's. So why do we men believe these things? Simply because the penis is the most obvious sign of our maleness? But isn't that a substitute for really feeling confident and masculine in one's self? There's no doubt that having a lover who really wants to make love with you and doesn't care about the size of your penis is a vital step to overcoming this creeping self-doubt (I speak from personal experience!). Of course, some men who think their penis is smaller than average don't have enough confidence to go out and date women, in which case sexual psychotherapy is probably a good idea before you die of penis depression. If your penis really is small, and I suppose that broadly means less than five inches long when erect, the only realistic resort you have is to change how you feel about it. A good start would be to join the support forums at Measurection.com. And read - and laugh - at a letter from a black guy to his average sized penis. If you want more information or support, email penis-owner "at" my-penis.org and I shall reply personally.
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