All About The Penis

All About The Penis Home Page

Ways women can make sex great for men

You can reproduce this article however you like provided an html link to http://www.my-penis.org/index.html is included.

1 Find out how he likes to be masturbated, sucked and fucked

Men prefer a firmer touch to the penis than women do to the clitoris - so find out how he would like you to touch him. This doesn't mean you have to be firm and grasp his penis hard all the time, but especially as he gets near orgasm, he'll want you to apply a fair amount of pressure to his penis. When you're sucking his cock, make sure he's enjoying it - you might want to try different movements of your tongue and lips to see what excites him the most. And when you have sex, don't lie there dormant - find out what pelvic movements you can make to excite him - even in the missionary position, you can press back against him.

2 Stimulate his balls, perineum, nipples and anus - and all the rest of his body

Don't just focus on his penis. Men like to be touched all over their bodies - even if they don't know it yet. An especially good move is to massage his anus as he comes. His perineum - between the root of his penis and his anus - is also very sensitive, and can give him a lot of pleasure if you lick or massage it.

3 Be adventurous

Don't be a log in bed - stiff and wooden - and don't stick to the same old routine. Sexual adventure can include all kinds of things: talking dirty ("Fuck me with your big hot cock!" "Fill me with your hot spunk!" "Fuck my hot wet cunt!" "Fuck me with that huge penis!"; taking the initiative by rolling on top of him and getting into the woman on top position then riding his penis fast and hard till he comes; dressing up; having spontaneous sex anywhere that takes your fancy; and so on, and on, and on.....

4 Go on a romantic break

Why does it always have to be the man who takes his woman away on a romance? Why don't you do this for him for a change?

5 Have sex morning, noon and night

Men are ready for sex pretty much any time of the day from the morning's wake-up call with an erect penis to the before-sleep nighttime sex session, while women often have one preferred time of day. So if you're a morning person, why not try sex at night? If you like sex in the afternoon, try it in the morning. It's all about variety!

6 Dress up for him

Most men are very visual. Whatever you think of your body, he'll like to see it dressed up in sexy lingerie, and he'll get aroused faster and harder if you tease him a bit. Act like a whore for a change, then suck his penis, fuck him and leave him breathless!

7 Be assertive from time to time

While most men like to lead during sex, from time to time they would really appreciate their partners taking the lead. So seduce him when he arrives home, lead him to the bedroom, strip him, make him lie there while you suck his penis, then masturbate in front of him before mounting him and riding him to orgasm. He might be surprised, but he won't object!

8 Check out sex positions here: http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com/index.html A Lovers' Guide to Sex Positions - and then try them, one by one.

9 Let him titty fuck you

Whatever you think of men's sex drive (hopefully you appreciate it!), it isn't going away. And when you're horny, don't you get pleasure from rampant raw acts of lustful pleasure? Sure, of course you do. So now think of your male partner, who pretty much wants rampant raw sex all the time, and you begin to see things from a male perspective. Thrusting his penis between your breasts until he comes is, for him, something close to heaven. Look down, press your tits together, get some lube in there, and let him get on with it!

10 Give him a quickie each week

At least one bout of uncomplicated sex keeps a man happy to romance and give you foreplay the rest of the time. You know what? Men really do like raw sex without all the lovey-dovey stuff - if not all the time, certainly a fair amount of the time. So get your lube out, look at him seductively till he gets the message, then let him put his penis in you and thrust until he comes. It's not insulting to you as a woman (in fact it actually honors his sexuality), and while it may not be romantic, it will certainly give him great pleasure. I doubt you really understand how good it feels to your man when his penis is in your vagina. And don't just lie there while he fucks you - move!

11 Don't ever use sex as a weapon

A very bad mistake. "Real" men don't do this, and women only do it because they believe they lack power elsewhere in the relationship. That's probably not true, and even if it has some truth in it, using sex to retaliate is the wrong answer. Few things are more alienating to a man than manipulative feminine strategies. And this is the worst of them.

12 Men like to be respected and appreciated

And women like to be cherished. You stand a great deal more chance of getting that from him if you tell him what a good lover he is and behave as though you respect him. Even if he  needs to improve his sexual skills, there are ways of telling him that will make him want to do it better, and ways of telling him that will make him think you are criticizing him. And if you insult his penis, you'd better remember before you do it that he's known his penis longer than he's known you.

13 Be assertive

Ask for what you want during sex in a straightforward way and he'll respond much better than if you pout or whine. Take it from me, most men would much rather their partner had a lot more male-type energy alongside her female energy. Among other things, this means asking for things straightforwardly, not playing games, and being assertive and energetic during sex.

14 Teach him how you like him to pleasure you

And assertiveness also includes being confident enough to show him what you like and don't like. After all, if you're going to play with his penis the way he likes, hadn't you better show him what to do with your clitoris?

15 Women come first

If he comes quickly, and he can't improve his performance, them adapt. Get him to go down on you until you come, then make love. He (and his penis) will appreciate your swollen, wet and warm vagina, and you'll enjoy the post-orgasmic stimulation of your G spot while you feel emotionally connected. Heck, you might even come again.

16 Act out your sexual fantasies

Remember that acting out your fantasy doesn't mean it's ever going to become a reality. Keep it in the bedroom and respect what he tells you - then tell him your own fantasies and act them out as well.

17 Don't ever fake orgasm

Having his penis in your vagina is probably not a route to orgasm for you (if you're one of the 75% of women who don't come during intercourse). So don't pretend that it is. Get an orgasm before he sticks his cock into you, and enjoy the friction and fullness when he fucks you. If you come, it's a bonus.

30 Suck his penis - and swallow his semen

You have no idea how important this is to your man. First, it feels unbelievably good; second, it means you accept him and the very sense of his maleness without reservation.

31 Keep your cunt tight

Men have a visceral response to the sight, smell, taste and feel of the cunt (no disrespect in using that word. It's a good old English word, and it expresses the vigor, vitality and power of the vagina). They want to explore it with fingers, eyes and tongue, but more than anything they want to penetrate it with their penis and thrust deep into you - making you feel good too. That's how a satisfying, mutually pleasurable sexual relationship should be, uninhibited and lusty! For him, a lot of the pleasure is in the friction, so if you think you have a loose vagina, tighten it up with Kegels or keep your legs closed during sex so you grip his penis. That way sex will feel much better for him. 

Find out how you can develop complete ejaculatory control and choose when to come during intercourse.